Saturday, July 7, 2012

Pearl Lowe, 'All That Glitters' and random thoughts


I read this autobigraphy recently, so I thought I would share a few thoughts on it. It has been out for a few years now, but I had never got round to reading it before.

I do love a good book and  a nice cup of tea. I read this book in one evening and found it is searingly honest. There seemed to be some issues that were skimmed over, such as an attack that Pearl endured. I thought the repercussions of this were never really addressed. When in a clinic for her problems, Pearl refers to the 'real' issues that other people there had suffered. I think suffering a very violent attack is a hugely traumatic thing to happen and was downplayed by Pearl.

Recently, I saw in an interview that Pearl wished to state the identity of her attacker in the book, but wasn't permitted to by the publishers. Therefore, I wondered whether that was why the attack wasn't given the attention it ought to have had.

I thought that Pearl's husband, Danny's drug problems were minimised by Pearl. She seems to state her belief that Danny could cope with being a recreational user, whilst she was the one with the real problem. Yet throughout the book, Dany encourages her to party amongst drug users whilst knowing that she has adidction issues. I found this quite troubling.

However, in many ways Danny comes across as a brilliant bloke in the book. The story of their instant feelings of love and Danny's acceptance of family and responsibility at a young age were really heartwarming.

I could go on more about this book, but don't want to bore. There is a lot of hope in it too and I like the fact that it gives an honest account of addiction, instead of presenting a Primrose Hill type gossip fest, which it could have been.

Onto some other random things. I was DELIGHTED to find a Rosali duvet cover in Ikea. It is actually a single, but still fairly large.


It is VERY hot here. Sorry! It has been 35 in the shade, which is rather toasty. However, I have been indoors this week with Eliska rather a lot as she has tonsilitis and is on antibiotics.

Despite the heat, I still enjoy a cuppa. Old habits die hard.

Seeing the sun streaming through the windows, leads to feelings like this...

It is a pleasure to pick the beautiful roses from the garden. Roman does most of our gardening. I need to learn.


Roman also grew some lavendar. Check out the arid looking soil! It rained last night though and did some impressive thundering, which I quite relished. The electric went on and off, very dramatic.



It is very hot and the sunlight is gorgeous, but the heat is so strong. Luckily, our house is quite cool.


Despite the sunshine, there has been some flooding locally. Luckily, we have not been affected by it.

I do find it difficult to keep a tidy and presentable home, with the little tot making dens and throwing my cushions around, bless her. She likes to climb between the sofa cushions an pretend it is a shop. This is a rare tidy moment. The cushion arrangement certainly won't last long!


Hope you are having a super Saturday. x

12 comments:

  1. Hi love. Was only thinking of you this week! How are things? Very Joel that you have lush weather. Very happy for you to enjoy it, but please send some over here, it's dire!!!
    Loving those roses, I can almost smell them from here. I picked some earlier in the rain. The scent is unbelievable.
    Your bedding is fab. I haven't been to an idea for years!!! It's great though we always spend a small fortune when we have been.
    Is that a new mag or the one I sent? I never buy them new, I tend to get given them or if I see them in a waiting room, I do a swap!
    Pearl Lowe, until recently, lived in my old home town and she and daughter daisy were a regular spot on the local circuit. Think they have moved to a village just outside now.
    Hope you are all having a lush weekend.
    Xx

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  2. Joel was meant to be Jel. X x

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  3. I am glad you made a trip to ikea did you see my new plates? I have that duvet cover in white its everywhere in my bedroom I became obsessed but now I need to tone it down. I love you idea of putting lavender in the jug I will have to have a good old prune in my garden. Hope your having a lovely weekend Tracy.

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  4. I think that when you engage in a self-destructive cycle of behaviours (for whatever reason) you kinda feel guilty for moaning, so play down the events surrounding this phase.
    I can see why Pearl Lowe would gloss over some of her troubles; sometimes you compare your woes to those who are suffering as a result of things they cannot control (illness, death etc) and feel incredibly guilty.

    I do the same, despite having reasons for making some big mistakes, I look at my parents' tragic lives and feel awful that they came through it all without hurting others, yet I behaved badly.

    Anyhow, I still want to come to your house, I cannot imagine a nicer setting for tea and cake, I really can't. I doubt we'd be lost for words, either.

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  5. Lucky you with the duvet cover! It looks fab! And lucky you for having some sunshine and warmth, it's flipping horrible here again. I love your little ballet dancers, the ones lying in the bottom of the bowl look like they have fallen over.
    Feeling your pain with the cushions, not the kids but my dog. I keep seeing gorge cushions but know that he would be wrecking them with muddy paws and digging his claws into them. Oh well!
    Make the most of your sunshine and hope Little Miss Eliska feels better.
    xx

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  6. You are so lucky to have some sunshine! Here in the UK is being utterly miserable! I understand dealing with cushions and toddlers. Here is the same with Joey. :)
    Wishing Eliska to get better soon. xx

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  7. Ah thanks for your lovely message lovely.
    Of COURSE I didn't think any the less of you. I admit that I wondered if you were feeling under a bit of pressure to make something (which you totally didn't have to, I know how busy it is to be home with little ones) and I didn't want that at all.
    Don't forget it was easy for me. I just popped out and bought your magazines and the other bits and bobs. In terms of time frames, I didn't make you anything so I am unbelievably touched that you have done that for me.
    Will be very lovely to have something exciting in the post for post, it will make a change from all the usual doom and gloom.
    Hope Eliska is a little better? The Prince was off colour last week too but is back to his usual self self.
    Will let you know when the little package arrives but promise me you will not feel bad. I would hate that.
    I still love thee and you knows it!
    Gem x x x

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  8. I love your home! It always looks so pretty and fresh ... I love the blue ikea cover, I have it in white and also the quilted throw for winter. How lovely to be having a nice hot summer ... something us Brits can only think of in fond remembrance! Hope Eliska is better soon ... have a beautiful Sunday, Claire xxx

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  9. Hello there,
    Such prettiness in one post!
    Love the roses too.
    I haven't read the book, but may, I love losing my self in a good true life book....
    i do hope your little one picks up soon(awful when children are poorly)I used to worry soo!
    Thank you Tracy for popping over to mine,your comments were of the kindest!
    Maria x

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  10. Hi! I'm so pleased you stopped by my blog because now I have found yours! I love it :)
    Thanks for your lovely comments on my children's books and my dolls.

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  11. I had no idea that Pearl Lowe had done a biog - must check it out! Hope your little one starts to feel better soon! Not only is it hard watching them suffer but it's so exhausting keeping them looked after and occupied when they're cooped up! I love the Ikea Rosali cover but they don't have any in our local Ikea :(. You know you're getting on when it's so hot outside that its cracking the flags but you're brewing up lol! Loving the cushions! Mine are the bane of my life - always picking them up - both dogs and little boy like to throw them on the floor! I would like to go to the sofa cushion shop though! What fun! Climbing through cushions and shopping combined - high street retailers have missed a trick there ;-) <3shell<3

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  12. Hello, I really enjoyed the Pearl Lowe book although it's been a couple of years since I read it so my memory is a bit poor. I was impressed how she wasn't afraid to show herself warts and all. I thought Daisy came out so beautifully in the book. It must have been hard at times having Pearl so blasted. The scenes when Daisy tried to contact her real father were quite heart-breaking. I admired Pearl for having the courage to get up and leave London and start again. I imagine it's a book that might help a lot of people who might be tempted to go the same path. I am really looking forward to her interior design book when it comes out. Well, it's very late over here and so I must head to bed. I've been up working on some chapters and couldn't resist a wee peek at your world. xx

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